We say that not everyone who studies and practices Buddhism must become a monk. Shakyamuni Buddha never advises anyone to become a monk, and everything is based on the principle of voluntary participation. So, as an ordinary person who doesn't want to become a monk, how can we learn Buddhism and practice?

In fact, learning and practicing Buddhism is a deep and long-term process. Here are some suggestions from my holy loyalty:

1. Understand Buddhist teachings

Firstly, we need to understand the fundamental doctrines and ideas of Buddhism, including the Four Noble Truths, the Eightfold Path, and the emptiness of dependent origination. By reading Buddhist scriptures and materials, one can gradually deepen their understanding of these doctrines and lay a foundation for spiritual practice.

2. Developing mindfulness and cultivating mindfulness

The cultivation of the mind is crucial, and it should be aimed at the vast number of sentient beings, not just for personal gain. In the process of spiritual practice, maintaining mindfulness is also essential. It is necessary to always be aware and focus on the breath, feelings, and thoughts in the present moment.

3. Adhere to the Five Precepts

The Five Precepts are the fundamental moral principles in Buddhism, including not killing, not stealing, not engaging in licentiousness, not speaking recklessly, and not drinking alcohol. Adhering to the Five Commandments helps cultivate compassion and moral values.

4. Practice meditation and wisdom

By practicing meditation techniques such as sitting meditation, one can cultivate inner peace and concentration. At the same time, continuously studying Buddhist scriptures and teachings to develop wisdom and see through the truth of things.

5. Cultivate patience and compassion

Maintaining a tolerant attitude towards difficulties and challenges can help resolve anger and disputes. At the same time, try to help others and treat all sentient beings with compassion.
 
6. Seeking guidance from the master

In the process of cultivation, it is best to find an experienced master as a guide, who can provide valuable advice and guidance to help us avoid detours on the path of cultivation.

7. Continuous learning and cultivation

Studying and practicing Buddhism is a continuous process that requires constant learning and practice. By reading scriptures, attending religious ceremonies, and communicating with fellow practitioners, one can deepen their understanding of Buddhism and continuously improve their level of practice.
Of course, everyone's way of practice and level of understanding of Buddhism vary, so we need to constantly adjust and explore according to our actual situation and needs. The most important thing among them is to maintain a devout heart and a deep belief in Buddhism, persistently pursuing spiritual cultivation. We must know that learning and practicing Buddhism is not a one-time thing, but a long-term thing that may accompany us throughout our lives. We need to persist for a long time, even to the end of our lives. As Master Shenxiu said, we should always wipe it clean and not let it get dusty!